Cree Cole:
Reflecting on My Top Tens: Embracing Growth and Purpose
As I step into 2025, I’ve taken time to reflect on who I am, what I value, and the direction I want to grow. This exercise has led me to explore my strengths, acknowledge my areas for improvement, and set clear goals for the year ahead. Here’s a glimpse into my personal journey, starting with my top tens.
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What I Like About Myself
There are many things I appreciate about myself, and they shape who I am. I love the way I care for others with deep, genuine affection and cherish the fact that I remember details that matter, which helps me stay connected to people. My level of empathy allows me to truly understand and feel for others, and I’m proud of the lifelong connections I’ve built and nurtured. I don’t hold grudges, which frees me to move forward without resentment. Honesty is another quality I value in myself, as it fosters trust, something others often place in me. My family knows they can depend on me, and I take pride in being there for them. I’m also open to trying new things, embracing change, and letting go of what doesn’t serve me, which makes room for growth and healing.
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What I Struggle With
While I have many strengths, there are aspects of myself I’d like to improve. Sometimes, I trust people too easily, which can lead to disappointment. Fear has also held me back from embracing certain opportunities, and I’ve noticed that I don’t always speak up as soon as I should. My compassion can make it difficult to set boundaries, as I’ve let people I love have too many chances. Staying focused is another challenge I face, and I often put too much on myself in terms of responsibility, leading to stress and burnout. Acknowledging these struggles is the first step toward addressing them and growing.
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Goals for 2025
This year, I am determined to turn my aspirations into actionable goals. One of my primary objectives is to transform my platform from a part-time endeavor into a thriving full-time career. I plan to make new connections and expand my network, stepping into spaces that might feel uncomfortable but are ultimately beneficial. Financial responsibility is also a priority, and I aim to budget more effectively. On a personal level, I want to strengthen my relationships by keeping in better contact with friends and being more available to them. Professionally, I’ll focus on enhancing my skills and expanding my platform’s reach to inspire and connect with a broader audience. Additionally, I strive to prioritize self-care to maintain balance and energy. Through these efforts, I hope to be a positive influence and leave a meaningful legacy that resonates and creates lasting change.
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Striving for Balance and Impact
This year, I’m committed to becoming better both professionally and personally. I want to show up as my best self, not just for me but for those I love and the world around me. By focusing on self-awareness, setting intentional goals, and embracing growth, I believe I can make a meaningful impact. Here’s to a 2025 filled with purpose, passion, and progress!
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Self Care Challenge:
What Are Your Top Tens?
Reflect on Your Top Tens for a Meaningful Start to 2025
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The new year is the perfect time for self-reflection and goal setting. To help you embrace this fresh start, we invite you to participate in an activity that encourages self-awareness and intentionality. This exercise will guide you to list your "Top Tens" in three categories: things you like about yourself, things you don’t like about yourself, and goals you want to accomplish in 2025. By doing so, you can celebrate your strengths, identify areas for growth, and set a clear path for the year ahead.
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How to Get Started
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Find Your Space: Choose a quiet and comfortable spot where you can reflect without distractions. Grab your favorite journal, a blank sheet of paper, or even a digital document to record your thoughts.
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The Three Lists:
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10 Things I Like About Me: Reflect on the qualities, habits, or skills that make you proud. Celebrate what makes you unique and valuable.
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10 Things I Don’t Like About Me: This is an opportunity for honest self-reflection. Think about areas where you’d like to grow or habits you’d like to change.
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10 Goals I Want to Accomplish in 2025: Dream big, but also be specific. Your goals can range from personal to professional, from simple to ambitious.
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Choose Your Method: Make this activity your own by using a method that resonates with you. Here are some ideas:
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Vision Boards: Use images, words, and colors to visually represent your top tens. This creative process can make your lists feel inspiring and tangible.
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Journaling: Write your lists in a dedicated journal where you can revisit and expand on them throughout the year.
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LYFWorks Scratchbook: If you’re looking for a structured yet flexible tool, consider ordering the LYFWorks Scratchbook available on Amazon. It’s designed to help you reflect, plan, and track your journey.
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Order and Display: Arrange your lists in a way that’s meaningful to you. For example, you might place your "likes" at the top as a reminder of your strengths, followed by your "don’t likes" as areas for improvement, and end with your goals as your roadmap for the year.
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Revisit Regularly: Your lists aren’t set in stone. Revisit them throughout the year to track your progress, update your goals, and reflect on your growth.
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