I know that a lot of you read the title and asked yourself the question, “What does she mean I’m worried about the wrong shit?” The first time someone ever said that to me I was floored. Like, what do you mean? I asked a question that I wanted an answer to. Why didn’t he just answer the question I asked instead of trying to tell me what to do? It took me about 24-48 hours to process what happened and why it happened but when I did, I realized the information that I wanted wasn’t relative to the situation I was in at the time. I was asking questions that quite frankly were none of my business due to the decisions that I’d made regarding this person and what type of relationship I was willing to be involved in. Now, could he have answered my question? Yes. Should he have? Absolutely not. So much is made of people saying one thing and then exhibiting another that clarity and comprehension is key!